January 24, 2025 at 10:49 pm

‘This is the state of our kitchen and dining room. This is the most tame of it.’ – Wife Talked About Her Husband’s Weaponized Incompetence

by Matthew Gilligan

Source: TikTok/@arianagrandesleftshoe

Ugh, this kind of stuff drives me nuts…

A woman named Kaitlyn posted a video on TikTok and showed viewers what the term “weaponized incompetence” really means.

And the root cause of her issue is none other than her husband.

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She told viewers, “Me and my mom haven’t been home for three days. This is the state of our kitchen and dining room. This is the most tame of it.”

And it wasn’t pretty, folks…

Kaitlyn showed viewers how filthy the house was and said about her husband, “He refuses to do the dishes, so he has run out of silverware.”

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She added, “I have a theory. He left this ginormous mess to punish us for not being home with him for days, so I think he did this intentionally to try to make us have to clean up after him.”

Kaitlyn continued, “This is what happens when you leave them alone in the house to their own devices, so pick your partners wisely, people.”

What a loser!

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Check out the video.

@arianagrandesleftshoe

This wont b cleaned up for a very long time #weaponizedincompentence #narcissist #narcissisticparent

♬ original sound – Mike Literus

Here’s how folks reacted on TikTok.

This viewer ain’t having it.

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Another TikTokker shared their thoughts.

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And this person spoke up.

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I think this lady needs to hire a divorce lawyer…

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