Sometimes people have a crush on someone who is already in a relationship. In that case, is it wrong for the person with the crush to tell their crush how they feel?

This woman has a boyfriend, and they are both in a drama class.

She noticed that one of her classmates was swooning over her boyfriend.

When the classmate went too far during a cast afterparty, she finally snapped and put her in her place.

Read the full story below for all the details.

AITA for telling the girl who kissed my boyfriend for a play that she is desperate and pathetic?

I (19F) study drama at uni, and my boyfriend is on the same course.

My boyfriend is a really good-looking guy, but he doesn’t seem to know it.

He gets a lot of attention from girls, and, for the most part, he doesn’t seem to get that they’re flirting with him.

This young woman noticed that another girl was crushing on her boyfriend.

I’m not generally annoyed by this, and never really say anything; however, there’s one girl in our class, let’s call her Victoria, who is obsessed with him.

She goes out of her way to be paired with him in group activities.

For example, the professor will pick groups by numbering us 1, 2, 3, so she will move herself to be in the same number as him.

She heard how Victoria told her friends that her boyfriend is hot.

She recently stepped down from a main role in a play we’re doing so she could be in a more minor one. This is simply because this character has a romance with my boyfriend.

I know this is the case because I’ve heard her say to her friends that she thinks he’s hot and whatnot.

I’ve never said anything to her about it because she seems pretty insecure. She’s always complaining about how she thinks she’s ugly.

They all went to a small afterparty after they performed a play.

I don’t see it as a big deal because my boyfriend doesn’t care.

However, we recently performed the play and had a small afterparty.

She got slightly drunk and was bragging about how she definitely felt something when they kissed in the play. She said she’s going to ask him if he felt the same.

I rolled my eyes and again ignored it, until she actually went up to my boyfriend.

Victoria approached her boyfriend and told him he’s a good kisser.

She was a little bit drunk.

When she went up to him, I was there, too.

Victoria started saying that she knows he must have felt a spark. She told him he’s a really good kisser, etc.

She snapped at Victoria and called her desperate.

I snapped, and sort of shouted at her.

I said she sounded incredibly desperate, going after somebody else’s boyfriend.

I told her she’s pathetic if she thinks a stage kiss means they should be together.

Victoria left crying, and her friends were calling her a jerk.

She looked super embarrassed and walked away.

I later heard she’d gone home crying.

I feel like a jerk because she’s obviously insecure and whatnot.

Her friends haven’t stopped calling me a jerk since.

AITA?

Victoria was hitting on her boyfriend. She was right to speak up.

Let’s see how others reacted to this story on Reddit.

The classmate took it too far, says this person.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

Here’s another honest opinion from this person.

Finally, short and straightforward.

Sometimes, you have to slap people with the truth to pull them out of their fantasies.

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