Student Uses Her Short Breaks To Nap In Her Dorm Room, And A Random Classmate Insisted On Joining Her. So She Refused To Share Her Personal Space.
by Heide Lazaro

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Protecting your personal space is important.
This woman lives in a dorm that’s near her college buildings, so she goes back to her room during short breaks.
A classmate repeatedly asked if she could come to her dorm to nap and rest in between classes, too.
Read the full story below and share your thoughts.
AITA for not letting a classmate nap in my dorm room during our break?
I have one short break between back-to-back classes on certain days.
I use that time to return to my dorm, rest for a bit, change clothes, or finish small tasks.
It is the only hour I get to reset before the next long lecture.
This woman refused to let her classmate nap in her dorm room.
A classmate who is not close to me overheard me saying I was going to my dorm to nap.
She followed me out of the building and said she wanted to nap, too, since her boarding house was far.
I told her I could not bring guests to my room.
I was not comfortable letting someone I barely knew stay in my personal space.
Her classmate tried asking the following week, and she again said no.
She said she would just lie down for a short time and would not bother anything.
I still said no since we have dorm rules, and I share the room with someone else.
She got frustrated and said I was being too strict.
The next week, she tried again.
This time, she said she just wanted to sit in the room to cool down.
I repeated that I could not allow guests.
Now, she’s wondering if what she did was wrong.
Later, I heard she was telling others that I acted like rest was something only I was allowed to have.
I really do not think it is wrong to protect my space and follow the dorm rules.
AITA for not letting her nap in my dorm?
Let’s check out the comments of other people in this story.
This user shares their personal thoughts.

It’s incredibly entitled and creepy behavior, says this one.

Here’s a valid point from this person.

This user suggests napping in the library.

Finally, here’s an honest opinion.

You have every right to refuse anyone who wants to invade your personal space.
If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.
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