He Waited Months for the Server Position He Was Promised—Then His Manager Gave It to Someone Else

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It’s frustrating when someone keeps telling you there’s room to move up, but nothing ever changes.
One steakhouse employee reached that point after spending two years as a back waiter and earning plenty of praise for his work.
His manager told him a serving position could be coming soon, so he waited.
But then, the restaurant started hiring new servers from outside instead.
Fed up, he finally called the managers out in front of everyone.
Read on to see what you think about this whole thing.
AITA for calling out my managers at work?
I (20M) work at a high-end steakhouse. I’ve been working there for two years now as a back waiter, and for the longest time I’ve always gotten compliments from customers, servers, managers, etc. for my work ethic and pride in my work.
Now I am in college, and classes are very expensive.
I also want to be able to live more comfortably and maybe even move out of my parents’ place into my own. So I’ve always thought being a server would be a great opportunity to do that because I’ve seen how much they take home every night.
When he saw they were hiring, he let them know how it made him feel.
One evening, I went into the office at my work and talked to my manager to address becoming a server. He told me that I’ve been doing a great job and that he wanted to make me a server soon.
Now fast forward a couple of months, and they are hiring new servers/bartenders. When I noticed, the first thing I said when I walked in, in front of my managers and the rest of my employees, was, “I guess we don’t promote anyone here?”
Everyone just kind of looked at me and didn’t say anything. It must have been kind of shocking because I do typically keep my cool, and I’m very nice and giddy most every day.
AITA?
Wow! That would be totally devasting.
Let’s check out if the people over at Reddit think there’s something else going on here.
This person sees problems on both sides.

That’s a good point.

According to this reader, he needs to contact the manager.

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Here’s someone who thinks he should find a new job.

There’s no doubt he could’ve handled this better.
Calling out his manager in front of everyone probably wasn’t going to help him get the promotion he wanted.
However, at the same time, their actions make it pretty clear they don’t plan on moving him up anytime soon.
So, instead of waiting around for something that may never happen, perhaps it’s time to find a new place that’ll give him the opportunities he’s looking for.
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