August 25, 2026 at 2:35 am

She Asked Her Husband for One Simple Favor—Put Dinner in the Oven—But He Rushed It to Get Back to His Video Game, Leaving Her With the Mess

by Heather Hall

Husband and wife disagreeing in the kitchen

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It can be very frustrating when someone rushes through a chore and leaves behind a big mess.

One mom of six ran into that after asking her husband to put some chicken in the oven while she ran to the store.

When she came back, she found raw chicken juice on the kids’ craft scissors, trash on the counter, and the baby gate left open.

She quickly realized he had rushed through everything so he could get back to a flight simulator game before he crashed.

When she called him out, though, he accused her of treating him like a child.

Read on to see who’s side you would take.

AITA for getting after my husband “like a child”?

40F, wife and mom of 6 (20–2). I was preparing to cook dinner when I realized that we were short on tortillas.

I asked my husband if he could put the chicken in the oven while I ran to the store. We usually cook together or take turns cooking, so he knows his way around the kitchen.

I returned home to find the kitchen baby gate open and no husband. I noticed on the counter the remnants of him opening the package of chicken with a pair of children’s scissors. There’s a drawer of utensils (including a knife) underneath the area where he left the raw-chicken-juice-covered scissors and trash.

When her husband came in the room, she asked him about the mess.

The kitchen shears are in the knife block, an arm’s length directly behind him. He chose to use the pair the kids do homework and crafts with and that are kept on the ledge in a pen cup.

When my husband came back into the kitchen, I asked, “Why did you use these dirty-*** scissors when there are a million other ways to open the chicken? Why is this mess still sitting here? And the gate was open. Boogie (2) could have been in the kitchen with the oven and stove on. What the heck were you thinking?”

He starts screaming at me, saying I treat him like **** and he’s not a child. It turns out he was playing a flight simulator video game in the bedroom when I asked him to help, so he was just trying to get back before he crashed.

AITA?

Yikes! It sounds like he did leave quite a mess.

Let’s check out how the readers over at Reddit feel about what her husband did.

Generally, this is how it works.

Messy Kitchen 3 She Asked Her Husband for One Simple Favor—Put Dinner in the Oven—But He Rushed It to Get Back to His Video Game, Leaving Her With the Mess

Lots of adults play games these days.

Messy Kitchen 2 She Asked Her Husband for One Simple Favor—Put Dinner in the Oven—But He Rushed It to Get Back to His Video Game, Leaving Her With the Mess

This reader thinks he was irresponsible.

Messy Kitchen 1 She Asked Her Husband for One Simple Favor—Put Dinner in the Oven—But He Rushed It to Get Back to His Video Game, Leaving Her With the Mess

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Messy Kitchen She Asked Her Husband for One Simple Favor—Put Dinner in the Oven—But He Rushed It to Get Back to His Video Game, Leaving Her With the Mess

As someone once said: If the boot fits!

He says she treated him like a child, but he rushed through a household chore so he could get back to a video game.

And what’s worse is that he left a raw chicken mess behind and forgot about the open baby gate with a 2-year-old in the house.

If he wants to be treated like an adult, he should probably start acting like one.

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Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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