Her Manager Treats Her Feedback Differently From Everyone Else on the Team — And Not in a Good Way

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Some bosses, no matter what you do, are just never happy with their staff and the work they do. This can become completely demoralizing and result in employees feeling entirely despondent.
What would you do if your difficult boss put you on a PIP plan? One person urgently sought advice from Reddit about this. Here’s what they said.
Will be put on PIP and need advice on strategy forward
I work in corporate and I’ve been informed that I am getting closer to PIP.
I asked if I will be put on PIP, and my manager said first they will document to see if I improve, and if not then I will be formally put on PIP.
My manager will be sending me a document with all the feedback written.
That has to be a brutal feeling.
I’ve never been in this situation, and while I do believe I have improvement opportunities I don’t agree with this.
In fact, my partners have given quite positive feedback and even advocated for my promotion but my manager said a promotion won’t help me develop my skills, so I was told I am underperforming.
This was a shock to me and I’m embarrassed to admit I cried.
Honestly? An understandable reaction.
I’ve noticed the feedback I get from my dept management vs my partners do not align majority of the time where it may be an escalation, a misunderstanding, etc it feels confusing.
This morning I started off with a meeting presentation where my partners told me I was “perfect” and by end of day I had a serious talk with my manager who told me I a progressing towards PIP.
I had a change in manager as well which really negatively impacted my career trajectory, where I was doing quite well but things have been confusing since the change.
Some employees just don’t get along no matter how hard they try.
I work long hours, have taken on additional work and nothing is enough.
I’ve been feeling like this since I got my new manager.
I realize I have never received any positive feedback from my manager or dept, it is always critical to the point where I feel like I’m walking on eggshells.
That kind of toxic environment can take all the love out of any job. Let’s see if Reddit could offer any words of wisdom.
The comments immediately jumped to the uncomfortable truth.

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And offered up some valid advice.

One person asked the important questions.

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Another pointed out a frustrating reminder.

But ultimately, some tough love was provided.

You don’t always have to let the door hit you on the way out.
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