October 11, 2023 at 8:39 am

‘Money talks, but wealth is silent.’ A Country Club Employee Talked About The Subtle Things That Only Rich People Do

by Matthew Gilligan

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

I guess if you spend enough time around rich folks, you start to learn how they behave on a day-to-day basis.

That’s what a woman named Bella claimed in a viral TikTok video where she talked about the way rich folks act and that some of them behave in ways that set them apart from other wealthy people.

Bella said that she works at a country club and that she’s noticed obvious differences between the “old money” and the “new money” members.

The first thing she said was that old money folks always introduce themselves by their first and last name with “a lot of pride and a nice, firm handshake.”

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

Bella also said that the old money crowd speaks “slowly, confidently, and calmly.” She also said that most of them are good listeners and don’t rush through conversations.

She also pointed out that old money people don’t advertise big logos and brands in their fashion choices and she said, “Money talks, but wealth is silent.”

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

She said that wealthy folks usually know about good food and drinks but that they will still order “nachos and things like that.”

Bella noticed that wealthy people are never on their phones when they walk into a room and that they always look put-together.

She added that the extremely wealthy people are always nice to others.

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

Take a look at her video.


These are just my opinions based of things I’ve noticed ! #wealth #rich #mindsetofrich

♬ original sound – Bella Dane

Here’s what folks had to say.

This person shared what they think about this.

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

Another individual has clearly dealt with wealthy folks at their job.

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

And one TikTokker said that they think what she said about brands is on-point.

Source: TikTok/@spicybells

The next time you see somebody being really silent… they’re probably rich.

Or, yanno… not.