September 29, 2024 at 12:50 am

Friend Refuses To Split The Dinner Bill, So The Evening Takes An Unpleasant Turn

by Diana Whelan

Source: Reddit/AITA/Pexels/Life Of Pix

When a friend group heads to a trendy new restaurant, one person decides that splitting the bill evenly is unfair because she only ordered a $14 snack.

When she refuses to pay her share of the higher bill, things get awkward and drag on longer than anyone expected.

A buzzkill for sure.

Read on for the story.

AITA for only paying for my own food at a friend’s dinner and wasting everyone’s time?

Last night, my friends and I decided to try a new restaurant that one of my friends, Alex, had been talking about.

I wasn’t too excited about it because I’ve never heard of it so I didn’t know what to expect, but I went along to hang out with everyone.

When we got there, I looked at the menu and didn’t see much that appealed to me.

I ended up ordering a small appetizer and a milkshake, while everyone else ordered full meals.

This is a recipe for disaster.

When the food came, I didn’t really like what I had ordered, but I ate it anyway because I was really hungry.

Also the food was very overpriced. The milkshake was about $8 while the fries were $6 so the total of what I ordered was $14.

When the bill came, it was pretty high since everyone else had ordered a lot of food.

One of my friends said we should split the bill evenly, but I didn’t think that was fair since I had only ordered a small appetizer and a drink.

I said I would just pay for my own food, while everyone else’s meals were much more expensive.

Naturally.

Some of my friends were okay with it, but a couple of them including Alex got annoyed. They said it was easier to just split the bill evenly and that I was being difficult.

I explained that I didn’t choose the restaurant, didn’t order much, and didn’t even like the food, so I didn’t think it was fair to pay more than what I owed.

We ended up having to stay an extra 15 min because I had a card and no cash and they had to go to the register and have me pay only a certain amount.

There was a lot of people there so it took time.

Embarrassing, much?

I was told we should have just split because now we wasted time but I still waited and paid my $14.

Now I’m wondering if I was being unreasonable because it was faster to just split the bill. I know that a lot of friend groups split bills so I’m wondering if I was just selfish?

I just didn’t want to have to play an extra $10 for no reason.

AITA?

Now, everyone’s wondering if the drama was worth saving a few bucks.

No. It wasn’t. At least, not according to Reddit.

This person says they should’ve told her in advance about splitting the bill.  Source: Reddit/AITA

This person understands entirely.

Source: Reddit/AITA

And this person thinks everyone could’ve done better here.

Source: Reddit/AITA

Eh…

When you haggle over a $14 tab, you might end up paying the price in awkwardness instead.

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