Bringing your father into your home so that you can help take care of him is a very nice thing to do.

What would you do if you overheard your father and brother talking bad about your wife?

That is what happened to the couple in this story, so they banned the brother from Christmas and made the father take care of himself.

Check it out.

AITA for not allowing my brother over for Christmas?

My dad moved into our house because he’s disabled.

My older brother stopped by one day right after Thanksgiving and my wife overheard them trash talk her.

That’s crossing the line.

About the way she was dressed and how she’s “bratty.”

My brother has been banned from the house since and my dad got a serious conversation about not gossiping about my household with family members or he will be on the street.

I don’t blame her.

My wife is still semi livid at my father for saying those things so she refuses to interact with him or cook for him.

(He complained about her cooking and why she was a brat was she told my dad “that’s the food I made eat it or starve”)

My dad has never cooked or cleaned for himself.

Ok, this is rude even if it is true.

My wife does call him pathetic but that’s because my dad is.

For Christmas my brother still isn’t allowed over and my wife is barely on speaking terms with my dad.

I won’t intercede for him or make him special food he likes.

As long as he can care for himself, he should.

His disability doesn’t keep him from cooking for himself and he’s been bummed out.

I told him that is his own fault for never learning to take care of himself.

Wow, this family is getting drama for Christmas.

Let’s see what the people in the comments think.

This commenter makes a good point.

Here is someone who would be tempted to pack up dads stuff and bring him to the brother.

The father should be more appreciative.

Here is someone who says maybe the father should be kicked out too.

This person says disabilities are not an excise.

The brother and father were way out of line.

No doubt about it.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check this one out about a man who created a points system for his inheritance, and a family friend ends up getting almost all of it.