April 16, 2025 at 11:15 pm

Her Daughter’s Friend’s Mothers Avoided Her Child, So She Planned An Epic Birthday Party To Show How Petty They Are

by Matthew Gilligan

mom and daughter talking on bed

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If you think kids can be petty and ugly to each other, you should get a load of some of the parents out there!

And this story highlights that fact in a huge way.

Check out how one mom showed other parents the error of their ways in this story from Reddit.

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Taking the high road and letting toxic parents orchestrate their own downfall.

“A group of 4-5 mothers have actively tried to exclude my 8 year old daughter. Their children are her best friends. The children love my daughter and when she comes to school they all run towards her to hug her and say hello.

Basically she’s the popular girl in class and she dislikes all the attention, but it gives her the power to stop bullying. And she does.

Sounds like a great kid!

She has refused to play with anyone who bullies and made an effort to play with the kids being bullied. So the bullying in her class has more or less stopped amongst the girls.

However some of the mothers have taken a dislike to her or perhaps me. So they have refused to invite her and one other girl from their group (whose mother I’m friends with) to events like birthdays.

Despite their own kids literally begging for them to invite my daughter. She has also been invited once and the child’s mother told the child to disinvite her.

There’s always an excuse for them to say no to play dates.

Despite this, the kids are still friends.

I have chosen to take the high road. So I always tell the girls when they ask that they’re always welcome at my place. Sometimes they have asked me to call their parents as they know they don’t have plans and I have done so and told them that unfortunately their parents said no. When they’ve asked why I tell them to ask their parents.

What is wrong with these people?!?!

A couple of times these parents have actively chosen for their kid to be the only one left at after school care rather than coming home with us.

My daughter’s birthday is coming up. I asked her how she wanted to celebrate and with whom. She chose her friends.

I texted and asked for a play date. Not mentioning that it was her birthday or that I was taking them to the most popular indoor playground that’s quite expensive.

All had excuses apart from my friend’s daughter. After they declined I answered: oh, what a shame. We were going to go to this playground. Your daughter really seemed to want to go and couldn’t remember any plans. She must have forgotten.

Wait, what?

One backtracked. I know for a fact that the others have had huge tantrums at home. I’m guessing this along with everything else is making their kids lose all respect for their parents.

I hear from my daughter that her friends are growing more and more resentful of their mothers. I mean this is the sort of thing they will never forget or forgive. I have of course told the children what a shame it is and I would have loved for them to come.

In 2-3 years their mothers will no longer hold any power over who they play with or where. I’m guessing I’m going to be seeing their kids a lot more than they will.

And I will go out of my way to display good behavior. Like I continue to encourage in my daughter.”

And here’s what people said on Reddit.

This person was impressed.

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Another reader weighed in.

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This individual shared their thoughts.

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Another Reddit user spoke up.

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And this person shared a story.

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This is way revenge is done, folks!

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