June 27, 2025 at 7:21 pm

They Asked Their Mother-In-Law To Chip In With The Electric Bill, But She Accused Them Of Putting A Price On Family

by Benjamin Cottrell

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It’s not uncommon for multi-generational households to clash over shared expenses.

One homeowner thought it was fair to ask their mother-in-law to contribute to the electric bill due to her voracious energy use, but the request sparked an unexpected argument.

Read on for the full story!

AITAH for charging my mother in law 160 dollars a month to live with us for two years in our house? It’s only for part of the energy bill which she uses a lot cause she’s cold a lot.

I charge my MIL $160 per month to live with us the last two years.

They think it’s only fair because of how many resources this MIL burns though.

It’s not rent — it’s part of the electric bill. It’s very high because she’s cold a lot.

But the MIL isn’t happy with this arrangement.

She says I’m being unfair and that family should be able to live with family free of charge, and she shouldn’t have to contribute anything to the household.

AITA?

This MIL sounds extremely entitled.

What did Reddit have to say?

It sounds like some stronger boundaries need to be set.

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Is anything about this arrangement equitable?

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Maybe it’s time this MIL starts living on her own.

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If she doesn’t like the rules set, she can always move out.

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Family or not, sharing a household means responsibly sharing expenses.

It’s not just about money — it’s about fairness too.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.

Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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