January 23, 2026 at 2:22 am

Guy Asked His Roommate For Utility Bill Receipts Before Paying His Part Of The Bills, But The Roomie Won’t Respond To Messages

by Heather Hall

Man thinking about whether to go ahead and pay the electric bill or not

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Sometimes, the simplest favor can turn into a bigger issue than you ever expected.

So, what would you do if your housemate kept sending you Venmo requests for utilities but refused to show you the actual bills and started ignoring your messages?

Would you just go ahead and pay? Or would you keep asking for the bill?

In the following story, one roommate finds himself in this situation and wants to see the bill before he pays. Here’s the full scoop.

AITA for not paying house utilities until I get the receipts

I’m 21 and still new to living life outside of college.

Last month, I asked my housemate if he could send me the utility bills statements before I pay him over Venmo.

I got the idea from my grandma, who said I should have receipts for everything I buy, so I wanted to give that a try.

Now, his roommate is ignoring him.

So I get the Venmo for the bill, and there is no statement, and I think, “Maybe he just forgot.”

This seems like a reasonable excuse since I did ask him over a month ago.

So I DM him “Please send receipts for the bills so I can pay you 👍” and I get no response.

I think that’s weird, so the next day I message him the same thing, and I get no response.

Yesterday, I tried calling him on Messenger, Discord, and over the phone and got no response.

AITA?

Wow! This guy sounds like something else.

Let’s check out what the fine folks over at Reddit think about what’s going on here.

This person was taken advantage of by a roommate.

Utilities 3 Guy Asked His Roommate For Utility Bill Receipts Before Paying His Part Of The Bills, But The Roomie Wont Respond To Messages

Here’s someone who thinks sending a copy of the bill is common.

Utilities 2 Guy Asked His Roommate For Utility Bill Receipts Before Paying His Part Of The Bills, But The Roomie Wont Respond To Messages

For this reader, he should keep all messages and receipts.

Utilities 1 Guy Asked His Roommate For Utility Bill Receipts Before Paying His Part Of The Bills, But The Roomie Wont Respond To Messages

According to this comment, his roommate is sending red flags.

Utilities Guy Asked His Roommate For Utility Bill Receipts Before Paying His Part Of The Bills, But The Roomie Wont Respond To Messages

He needs to keep pushing.

In no reality should he ever just pay the bill and not know exactly what he’s getting charged for.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.

Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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