His Boss Hated When Coworkers Became Friends—So He Deliberately Turned Them Against Each Other
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There’s controlling a workplace culture, and then there’s actively engineering conflict just to prevent people from liking each other. In this story, one employee’s director seemed to specialize in the latter.
The longer she worked there, the more she began to notice a consistent pattern: any time coworkers grew close, hanging out, sharing jokes, building rapport, the director would step in and somehow ensure that friendship crumbled into workplace tension within weeks.
Even her own supervisor, someone the whole team genuinely liked, was ordered to keep his distance to preserve his authority.
The whole thing felt less like leadership and more like sabotage dressed up as professionalism.
You’ll want to keep reading for the full story.
The Director told my supervisor not to sit for lunch with us
My director, for some reason, is terrified of friendships ever forming in the office.
I will never know why, but I’m assuming it is to stop office gossip and chatter and generally prevent people from talking outside the office setting.
I’ve noticed that if they ever find people getting close (say, having coffee after work, sharing an inside joke, or anything of that sort) they will pit them against each other and make sure that, within a month, they have a falling out and are trying to bring each other down at work, which really isn’t helping anybody.
The boss even went as far as to start policing lunchtime seating arrangements.
My supervisor was told not to sit with us because he needed to maintain some distance from his subordinates, otherwise he would not be able to do his job objectively.
My supervisor is the sweetest, but he is literally being forced to keep his distance from his own team.
We all have an active informal group chat anyway though, and we all hang out occasionally because they’re all really nice people.
I truly have a sick, sociopathic boss.
What kind of satisfaction could the boss possibly be getting from this?
Redditors chime in with their thoughts.
This commenter doesn’t mince words.
When you let the wrong people rise to power, things can get ugly.
Who says work has to be all doom and gloom all the time?
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Some brave employees decide to not let their toxic bosses dictate their lives.
This director really said “friendship bad” and built an entire management style around it.
Manufacturing conflict between coworkers doesn’t stop gossip, it just makes everyone trust leadership less, which feels like the opposite of the goal here.
Making the one universally liked supervisor keep his distance from his own team isn’t objectivity — far from it.
Sometimes the more you try to exert total control, the more people rebel.
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