October 29, 2026 at 5:55 am

One Simple Errand Became A Tough Choice When A Woman Needed Transportation But Had Serious Doubts About The Neighbor Offering To Drive

by Chris Allen

A car driving down mountain town highway

Canva

Relying on others for distant errands can create some uncomfortable situations.

This woman already disliked her neighbor’s driving but asked for another ride.

A risky roundabout move pushed her anxiety over the edge.

Then she yelled from the passenger seat.

Let’s see how this one played out.

AITA for telling off the neighbor who was driving me around for out-of-town errands when she was driving horribly?

I am a 28-year-old woman who doesn’t drive.

I have a few mental health issues including autism and anxiety.

I currently live in a small farm-town where anything major like a Walmart is a 45 minute drive minimum.

Let’s see how this factor ended up causing her problems.

Seeing as how I am currently on disability for said mental health issues, I got paid today and needed to Walmart.

Because I don’t drive, I had to ask a neighbor who did.

However, the last time I asked her to drive me, it didn’t leave me too enthused with her driving to begin with – so I was naturally reluctant to do so again.

Read on to find out how the neighbor’s driving was.

This time when we were driving, we she went through the roundabouts, she would start in the outside lane, go into the roundabout in the inside lane, and exit back out in the outside lane.

The last time that she did it, she nearly caused an accident and I just snapped.

I yelled at her saying how doing stuff like that causes accidents, and that I was ultimately terrified to ride with her.

AITA?

When you’re reliant on someone else to help you get around, you have to accept them and their ride as they are.

Sure, if you notice something truly dangerous you could make a suggestion or a calm comment – but yelling at the driver?

It’s not very gracious toward the person who was helping her out.

Let’s see what folks on Reddit had to say about this.

This person thought she should simply not travel with the neighbor.

Screenshot 2025 10 08 at 10.07.23 One Simple Errand Became A Tough Choice When A Woman Needed Transportation But Had Serious Doubts About The Neighbor Offering To Drive

While others explained that yelling at a driver is only going to make the situation more dangerous.

Screenshot 2025 10 08 at 10.07.58 One Simple Errand Became A Tough Choice When A Woman Needed Transportation But Had Serious Doubts About The Neighbor Offering To Drive

If you enjoyed this story, check out this post about a community who realizes their mistake after restricting parking to residents only gets guests and delivery drivers towed.

Meanwhile, this Redditor pointed out that she could have not gotten the lift in the first place.

Screenshot 2025 10 08 at 10.08.22 One Simple Errand Became A Tough Choice When A Woman Needed Transportation But Had Serious Doubts About The Neighbor Offering To Drive

Her fear may have been real, but yelling at the neighbor giving her a ride wasn’t fair.

Commenters felt she should find different transportation instead of criticizing someone doing her a favor.

Enjoyed this story?

Readers who liked this also read this story about a person who is told their fence doesn’t meet community guidelines, but then they find a way around those guidelines in their own handbook.
Read Story→