Most people are probably aware that there is a huge problem with stray animals these days. The shelters are full, animal control facilities need more help than they could possibly get, and pet owners are struggling and making bad decisions because of it.

OP is doing the good work, picking up stray cats and getting them medical treatment (and rendering them infertile) before putting them back where she found them.

I run a TNR program for feral cats. Non profit, I catch all cats and get them the medical attention they need myself, out of my own pocket. I love helping them.

A lot of the cats are not able to be rehomed, so I fix them and release them. Get them their shots and hope for the best. I am not a large scale operation.

Recently she picked up a few cats who were clearly feral…and one that very likely wasn’t. It had a collar with a phone number and was clearly well-cared for.

Recently I was called to an area overrun with orange cats. They were everywhere and I mostly ended up handing it over to professionals.

I did, however, manage to grab three very sweet cats. Two were terrified, skinny, a little beaten up, but overall friendly. The third one was a little gent.

He was tubby, well groomed, fish patterned collar, the works. My plan was to find his parents and drop him off with a warning to keep him in due to the large amount of traps being set. Then the little bastard sprayed the inside of my car to the freakin max.

He was also not neutered, and with the number of cats who resembled him in the vicinity, OP felt certain he was part of the problem.

So, apparently, he wasn’t fixed. I couldn’t really tell (longhair) and assumed he was so left my covers off. Big mistake!

I debated taking him home or taking him to get neutered with the rest. He was an indoor-outdoor cat (indicated by his collar tag) and with so many strays I’m certain some were carrying his genetics.

So, she had him neutered before she contacted the owners.

Ultimately I took him with me and got him neutered. No chip so I called the number on his tag and informed them where their cat was and gave them time slots to pick him up or have him dropped off.

They took offense, accusing her of stealing their cat and traumatizing their child, and her rescue partner agrees that she crossed a line.

The owners went ballistic. They were cursing me out and came to collect their cat not twenty minutes later. Called me a kidnapper, blamed me for their child having nightmares (scared over their cat going missing).

I tried to explain that he needed to be fixed if he was going to be outside but they didn’t want to know. They said I should have called immediately regardless.

The cat’s family are blowing up her social media and she’s worried she damaged her relationship in the rescue community – but she’s not sure she really did anything wrong.

I spoke to my rescue friend who said I was in the wrong. Even though we know we are technically in the right, we didn’t have the legal ground to do that and it wasn’t my decision to make.

I did apologise, but have blocked their numbers (the mom is flaming me on facebook and dm’ing people I know). I have a duty to care for stray cats. Me knowing an unneutered male was roaming free and not doing anything about it was a concern for said stray cats.

Things are still tense between my rescue buddy and I and I don’t completely disagree. I know I crossed a line even if it was for the greater good. People are finding out and taking sides, so I’m not sure who to really believe was “right” here.

Reddit is having a tough time with this one!

The top comment comes down very firmly on the side of the cat’s owners.

This person disagrees, saying that everyone is responsible for their community’s health and the cat should have been kept indoors.

And this commenter says the only thing OP did wrong was fessing up.

They say maybe OP could have handled it better, but ultimately, she did a good thing.

You let the cat out and you take your chances.

Sure, what she did was technically wrong – but morally right.

I agree with the person who said she should have just neutered the cat and put it back where she found it. The family would have been none the wiser.