March 11, 2025 at 3:49 am

His Wife’s Friend Uses Her Astrological Sign As An Excuse For Everything, So He Told Her She Was Being Unreasonable And Throwing A Tantrum

by Matthew Gilligan

Source: Reddit/AITA

I’ve never understood people like this…

I’m talking about people who use their astrological signs to justify EVERYTHING in their lives.

And the guy who wrote this story on Reddit agrees with me!

Check out what he had to say to his wife’s friend and see if you think he took things too far.

AITA for ruining dinner by calling my wife’s friend’s ‘Virgo moment’ a tantrum?

“My wife’s oldest friend’s birthday was yesterday and so their friend group threw her a birthday dinner at a restaurant.

Hey, at least he’s honest…

I was invited as a plus one.

So full transparency, I’ve never liked this friend.

She’s always seemed too dramatic and over the top for me.

Always attributed everything to her star sign.

Insufferable comes to mind if I were to use one word.

That said, I usually just ignore her and let her be whenever we’re in the same room because why not?

Yesterday though she was making making a big deal because they got her dessert order wrong.

He finally had enough.

To be frank, we did wait like 45 minutes for it to arrive so I get that.

But she just kept complaining to the group and then stopped herself and said she was going to have a Virgo moment, whatever  that means and I said under my breath but clearly too audibly, “you mean a tantrum”.

She asked me to repeat myself and the cat was clearly already out the bag so I did.

She asked what I meant by that and I explained there’s no such thing as a Virgo moment, just a grown person throwing a tantrum which devolved into a back and forth, ruined the mood and us leaving early.

I don’t think calling it a tantrum was wrong because it is one, but choosing to speak up at her birthday dinner is probably where I dropped the ball and messed up.

I was calm throughout and didn’t escalate things but even then, it didn’t have to be said because there really was no outcome where things would’ve worked out well.

AITA?”

Let’s see what folks had to say on Reddit.

This reader said they all SUCK.

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Another individual shared their thoughts.

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This person weighed in.

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Another Reddit user said he’s an *******.

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And this reader agreed.

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He wasn’t feeling her connection to her Virgo sign…

It doesn’t sound like their friendship was meant to be.

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