September 20, 2025 at 5:15 am

He Made A Deal With A Friend Of His Girlfriend, But After Their Awful Breakup, He’d Rather Cut Ties Than Honor It

by Ben Auxier

An airport with a caption that reads "AITA for not letting my ex gf's best friend use my flight benefits post break up"

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There are often messes to clean up after a bad breakup.

But this one…probably doesn’t come up a whole lot.

Here’s the story.

AITA for not letting my ex gf’s best friend use my flight benefits post break up

So to give context, I made a deal over a year ago to give a couple free flights to my at the time my girlfriend’s best friend.

In exchange for a couple disney passes to take my gf to disney.

The problem is, things REALLY fell apart.

The break up was very ugly and hurtful to the point my job actually is paying for my therapy.

That being said her best friend texted me out of the blue asking if she can still use my free flights.

I’m wanting to say no but part of me feels guilty for doing so as we did have a deal.

So is a deal a deal, or does this count as a dealbreaker?

Granted not her fault my ex cheated, took my cat, etc. but I also wanted no association with anyone from her circle as it just reminds me of all the **** I just went through.

My other fear with giving her the passes is if she acts a fool, I will lose my job and benefits.

What should I do?

Let’s see what the comments think:

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The consensus was pretty clear.

2025 08 16 23 42 18 He Made A Deal With A Friend Of His Girlfriend, But After Their Awful Breakup, Hed Rather Cut Ties Than Honor It

Ain’t worth it.

2025 08 16 23 42 25 He Made A Deal With A Friend Of His Girlfriend, But After Their Awful Breakup, Hed Rather Cut Ties Than Honor It

Maybe this is on her?

2025 08 16 23 42 33 He Made A Deal With A Friend Of His Girlfriend, But After Their Awful Breakup, Hed Rather Cut Ties Than Honor It

Taking a cat is unforgivable.

2025 08 16 23 41 57 He Made A Deal With A Friend Of His Girlfriend, But After Their Awful Breakup, Hed Rather Cut Ties Than Honor It

Now if you’ll excuse me I need to go pet my kitties and tell them I love them.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.