August 10, 2026 at 6:15 pm

Their New Apartment Depends on a Landlord Reference—But Their Former Landlord Hasn’t Responded

by Michael Levanduski

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Finding a great apartment can be difficult, but with persistence, it is possible.

What would you do if you found an apartment that you love, but it requires a letter of recommendation from your previous landlord, and he hasn’t replied to your request?

That is the situation that the young couple in this story is in, so they are worried that he will ignore their request and they will lose out on the apartment. Even when they were living in the previous landlord’s house, he wasn’t very responsive, so this is a real concern.

Personally, I don’t think they have much to worry about. Landlords know that it isn’t always possible to get this type of recommendation. Read through the full story below and see if you agree.

Past landlord not responding to current apartment application inquiry, what to do?

My partner and I applied to an apartment and are quite frustrated.

First of all, when you apply online, it asks for minimal things, but this is a cheap complex anyways.

Turns out, they wanted an extensive list of information that has dragged on the process an extra 3 days.

I can see why this would be very frustrating.

Now they’re waiting to hear back from our previous landlord.

The thing is, this guy would take a week or so to get back to us as tenants, unless it was an emergency.

We texted him asking him to respond to the apartments email ASAP, so we don’t lose the unit or hundreds of dollars from applying.

Could they explain this to the new apartment manager?

It’s now day 2 and zero response.

It does not surprise us as this guy was very selfish and cheap.

He took $350 out of our $2500 security deposit to pay for his bills, but we were out of state by that point and there wasn’t much we could do.

This situation doesn’t affect his pocketbook, so he may not respond or take his sweet time if he does.

Maybe the new landlord would accept these things instead.

We have some emails from him saying he was glad to have us as tenants after we declared our move out notice and another email stating our deposit refund and what he deducted (which had nothing to do with us as tenants).

If we don’t get this place, we may be hurt a lot financially.

Does our whole application process rely on one guy who doesn’t care?

We are worried we’d get screwed by our past landlord though he was always a nightmare to begin with and we’ve done nothing wrong.

It is an unfortunate situation, to be sure, but I think if they explain it to the new apartment manager, they will likely understand.

Let’s see what the people in the comments on Reddit have to say about this situation.

I think these are good suggestions.

Comment 3 149 Their New Apartment Depends on a Landlord Reference—But Their Former Landlord Hasn’t Responded

Here is a landlord who says not to worry about it.

Comment 2 152 Their New Apartment Depends on a Landlord Reference—But Their Former Landlord Hasn’t Responded

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This process can take a while.

Comment 1 152 Their New Apartment Depends on a Landlord Reference—But Their Former Landlord Hasn’t Responded

Just provide the information you can; the apartment manager will understand. This is certainly not the first time that they have ever run into this situation.

Plus, they have the email from the former landlord saying he was happy with them as tenants; that will go a long way.

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