September 14, 2026 at 5:10 am

He Skipped School to “Bank” His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

by Michael Levanduski

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School lunch can get expensive sometimes, and parents need to set reasonable budgets for how much their kids can spend.

What would you do if your father gave you $20 per week for school lunch, but when you called in sick sometimes, he got upset if you then used the ‘extra’ money for treats?

That is what happened to the student in this story, and he feels like he is well within his rights to splurge when he is able to save money from calling in sick, since there is rarely enough food in the house.

While he shouldn’t be calling in sick to try to save money, it also isn’t fair that he doesn’t get enough food. Read through the full story and see what you think.

AITA for spending school lunch money on other food?

I’m a senior in high school and I struggle a lot with my attendance.

Is $20 really enough for a week’s worth of lunches at school?

My dad expects me to use $20 a week on school lunches.

Last week I went out with my friends after eating very little all day (because there was very little food in the house) and bought some pizza with money I had leftover from missing school for a day.

He really shouldn’t be missing school as a way to save money.

My dad is mad now, saying that I should only be using the money he gives me for lunches and nothing else, and he won’t give me any more than $20.

If I miss school/skip lunch to save up for something nice every now and then, he’ll expect the $20 to last longer.

Why is there so little food available?

So essentially, if I try to save by skipping meals I still don’t even get to use it for something nice.

We never have nice food at our house. It’s all junk and food that is reserved for dinner so I can’t eat it.

Maybe this wasn’t the smartest use of money, though.

For those curious, I saved $3 to buy a latte last week and now I’m in trouble for it because it’s not school lunch.

AITA?

Missing school because you want to save money is not a good idea at all, of course. But his parents should make sure he has enough to eat, too.

Check out what the people in the comments have to say about this situation and what they think he should do.

This person thinks he is slightly out of line.

Comment 5 65 He Skipped School to Bank His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

Here is someone who recommends getting a part-time job.

Comment 4 67 He Skipped School to Bank His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

Raising kids is expensive, that’s for sure.

Comment 3 73 He Skipped School to Bank His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

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Lunch money is not intended for a latte.

Comment 2 75 He Skipped School to Bank His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

This person points out that it is not his money.

Comment 1 75 He Skipped School to Bank His $20 Lunch Money for Extra Snacks—Then His Dad Found the Cash Stash

It wasn’t his money to decide what to do with. If he needed money for extra things, he should get a part-time job, or ask his father for an allowance.

In addition, he really needs to stop calling in sick to school so often.

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Senior Contributing Editor, Workplace & Community

Michael Levanduski is a veteran journalist and digital culture specialist with over 15 years of professional writing and research experience. While his background spans emerging technology and complex technical subjects, Michael specializes in analyzing workplace ethics, property disputes, and viral interpersonal dynamics across modern digital forums.

Since joining TwistedSifter in 2024, Michael has authored some of the publication’s most widely read coverage on corporate policy, malicious compliance, and neighborhood relations. Rather than simply aggregating online debates, he brings rigorous research, organizational context, and an empathetic editorial voice to everyday human dilemmas—transforming raw forum discussions into insightful, highly engaging narratives.

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