After nearly a decade, it’s very clear that the current arrangement is not really helping him in any way.
If the bride were okay with all of this, it would be fine, but she asked her kindly not to do these things.
She shouldn’t have to drink something in a hurry just so that it doesn’t get stolen.
The assumption that one person would continue carrying the financial burden without anyone stopping to consider their situation is also a red flag.
In my opinion, challenges like this are what can make someone grow and level up if they overcome them. This feels like a lost concept nowadays, doesn’t it?
He did communicate he felt worried about it multiple times, but communication only works when the other person listens.
The only thing this BIL really manifested was an awkward move-out conversation.
If the person deflects, you know it will cause issues in the future.
It’s a classic ‘the trash took itself out’ situation.
Joe needs to be called out on his freeloader behavior.
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